Wednesday, July 13, 2011
I feel like there's something wrong with me, please help?
Im 13, 5'1, and around 80 pounds. Ive been depressed for about 3-4 years. Ive had a few traumatic experiences. And I feel like im on the verge of an eating disorder. Im very mature for my age. Ive dealt with alot of rejection and am very insecure sometimes. I am very moody and have thought that I was bipolar or had BDP. I often have feelings of nothingness or emptiness. And im not sure what to do.
My friend is a horrible singer but thinks she's good at it?
A "friend" of mine, who is completely immature and I can only deal with her in a happy, generous mood, thinks she is the sh*t at singing. However; she is the WORST singer I've ever heard, even with singing lessons. No-one EVER tells her how bad she is, but it's all they'll talk about. The thing is, my family does NOT get on well with her family, and she is so sensitive that if someone insults her favorite grass blade she'll burst into tears and scream about how horrible you are. She does not associate really with anyone over the age of 5, and no-one knows how to deal with her. But you have to feel kinda bad for her pathetic-ness I suppose, and I really want to spare her the pain of still trying out for our local "Idol" competition and singing in the streets (That hurts EVERYONE) and constantly being rejected from competitions (Yes. Even after all of that, she still thinks she's wonderful). Is there ANY way that I can get her to know how BAD of a singer she is?! I don't know HOW her parents let her try out for things.... It's gotten so bad I'm on the verge of paying someone to come up to her and tell her how bad she is. That may sound harsh, but she's living in a deluded fantasy land and she needs to GROW UP because when she hits the real world, she's going to be in for a shock. I'm hoping that knowing she SUCKS at it, will motivate her to try other things, and maybe develop a bit of a personality and maybe make a friend who ISN'T four? Even if it doesn't, I'll just be happy if she stops because she's just hurting herself and any unfourtunate persons ears.. And I'm not sure that if ONE person telling her will be enough, as she'll fall apart into pieces and to get her to stop sobbing hysterically sitting in the street waiting for a car to come and "end her horrible life" while hopelessly waiting for people to notice the "designer" jeans that are 4 sizes too small in an effort to make her look "skinnier" even though that is NOT how it works while dropping HUGE hints for you to notice them until all you can do is tell her not to listen to the "haters" so she'll just SHUT UP and go away. What to do?
Help, I feel horrible.?
Your not a failure! wow the way you write is smarter then me, look in life there is always going to be someone smarter then you and it dosen't matter what your family might think of you because to be honest when they are dead and gone its just going to be you in the world and what you have set out for yourself, your mum want the best possible for you, and trust me i have been int the same situation, (my dads a Doctor) .. : / you can never fill up the shoes of some one else everyone has something special about them, and from the sound s of it you are a very talented girl! keep up the great grades and dont worry. so much YOUR GRADUATING!!!!! Have fun. and well done! :)
Any creative project ideas over the book To Kill a Mockingbird or The Count of Monte Cristo?
My friend had to do the same thing about a month ago. She got a small cardboard box and made a little stage type thing with a curtain and everything. inside the box, she constructed her favorite scene from the book out of material she had found out of an old doll house like mini chairs and stuff. It looked really cool and i'm pretty sure she got an A. Oh, and she made it look like a set for a play or movie and added little lights around the edges. She also cut out the sides and only left the bottom and back. Using some popsicles and more cardboard, she made the curtain thing and used a little piece of cloth she bought from Joann's to make the curtain. Hope this helps. :D
When we met my hair was long, but now I cut it off.?
When we first met, I had my hair long and braided. We hit it off but we are separated for the summer, and I cut my hair short and curly. We have been keeping in touch but I am a bit insecure about how he will feel when he finally see me and be surprised! I just need some wise, truthful, words to get me back on track!
Is my relationship over?? Need to know asap? Can I get answers for once?
My relationship has been really rocky for the past couple of months, ever since I got diagnosed with depression. He said he would stick with me through it because he won't let me go through this alone. Well it got bad, and my depression changed me a lot, and a couple weeks ago he told me "You're not the girl I fell in love with anymore.." A couple days ago, we nearly broke up because of a fight, but we resolved it and are still together, plus I'm on medication now so I'm like I used to be. However, he told me "Maybe some time in the future we should take a break and talk to other people and see if we want to be with them instead." Funny, he just told me a week before that he thinks he's so lucky to have a girl like me...I know it's wise to meet/talk to other people, but it hurts because that makes it sound as if he no longer wants me. He told me just three days ago that there's no one as perfect for him as I am. I no longer believe that...and I no longer believe that he loves me. It hurts so bad...we've known each other since early childhood, and had a lot of memories back then, and I've secretly always had feelings for him, and I was super happy when I found out he wanted me too and we got together. He wasn't just my boyfriend...he was my best friend too, so if this comes to an end I'll lose both. We were so close :( What do I do? Are we over?
My ex likes me, what do I do?
Move on. It sounds like he wants you to be his safety net so if a girl dumps him he can go back to you so he won't be alone. You deserve better than that. Keep in mind that you choose who you go out with, and if you don't want him then do not go back to him. Remember why you broke up in the first place then ask yourself if that would still be a problem. Try to think of anything that would ruin the relationship this time around so you can save yourself a little heartache.
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